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The Crying Shame
The Crying Shame With some regularity clients who cry in my office apologize for doing so. I feel a little surprised by this since I thought people knew that we therapists are used to, and expect, a certain amount of … Continue reading
How to Ruin Your Marriage in 10 Easy Steps
How to Ruin Your Marriage in Ten Easy Steps Did you think it would be difficult to tear asunder your life-long pledge of love and fidelity? What could possibly happen to ruin this perfect union of souls? I’m here … Continue reading
You Are Not Supposed To Be ‘In Love’
Someone asked me recently why he should work on his relationship with his seemingly irretrievably resentful wife, when it would be so much easier to start over with someone new. I’m not a big advocate of doing whatever is easiest. … Continue reading
Don’t Believe Everything You Think
Once our basic needs are met we all seek connection with others and meaning in our lives, but sometimes our own thoughts are actually obstructing our progress. Many different schools of thought have influenced me as a therapist, but the … Continue reading